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As I looked around the table at the amazing talent I had assembled for learning about the North America Quality Group, I realized I had a BIG problem. They were all respected subject matter experts, but they lacked leadership and influence skills. Normally I would have to play block & tackle to drive initiatives where my team lacked those skills. Instead I took personal accountability to elevate their leadership skills for a greater impact. 

Does this sound familiar? Have you been fortunate enough to have an amazing talent pool, but felt depleted because so often you would have to make up for short-comings in their skills? Do they have challenges handling conflict so you have to step in? Do they know their “stuff,” but can’t drive change with consensus? Do they focus on simply transactional work and can’t create a strategy to drive long term change? These are some of the most common pitfalls I see in a team of experts for which you and I as leaders must fill in the gaps. There’s an easier way in 2022 to achieve your goals with less effort.

I’ve seen many leaders of teams struggle with this issue. However, if you are reading this and you’re an aspiring C-suite leader who simply needs some tools for elevating your capability, you’ve also come to the right place. I’m here to help you as well. 

Build a strategy for accountability

First things first; do you have a strategy for 2022 goals? These can be personal or for your organization. If not, have you ever built a strategy? In my last corporate role, I had to duct tape my strategy, taking the corporate strategy and modifying it to my role and my deliverables. I later realized my team also did not have the skills to build a strategy and a roadmap to drive change within their function. It became apparent to me that the framework did not exist and I created it in my book The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track. 

Once you’ve built the strategy, you need an accountability tool to keep yourself on target each day, week and month until you’ve achieved the goals. I created this accountability tool for myself and it served as the foundation for helping my team do the same for their deliverables. In my book, we further discuss restructuring the monthly one-to-one meetings to focus on essential skills needed to achieve the goals and then on the strategic deliverables. The monthly one-to-one’s served as team accountability to ensure they had everything they needed to be successful. 

A leader needs personal accountability to allocate some time each day to advance the strategy. I find when I work with leaders to provide the framework they need, it makes the process quite easy and you get a higher success rate in achieving your personal and team goals. 

The book The CEO’s Compass has links to resources pages for all of the tools and templates you need to build a strategy and for personal accountability. If you need me to walk through this with you, let’s book a short call so I can support you. 

Have the courage to ask for help

Let’s assume that building a strategy and having monthly accountability sessions with your team makes sense, but you realize developing their essential skills needs more work than you have capacity. What do you do now? You may reach out to HR for resources or google a workshop that you think can help, but in the end, these resources only deliver awareness, but rarely achieve noticeable results. Developing essential skills takes teaching and mentoring for sustainability. You know this in your gut, but still feel helpless to know what to do next. And while you’re mulling this capacity & capability issue, you’ve gotten 50 more emails and the phone is starting to ring. You put this task aside only to realize it’s going to come back and bite you. 

I knew this challenge when I was leading an organization and I had to develop those skills while also doing my job as the Director of Quality. From this experience, I developed the C-Suite Leadership Academy designed for the leaders of tomorrow that is ready for deployment and in partnership with your needs. We offer group training and individual coaching to build the unique capability for each individual. I extend this offer to you because I know the challenges you have ahead of you and I simply don’t want to see you struggle anymore. I want you to move from saying “How do I have time for this” to “I’m grateful I’ve found a partner that can help guide me.” 

The only thing standing in the way of making a decision is something as simple as courage. It is having the courage to simply ask for help to build the capability you need on your team. If this makes sense, but you’d like to learn more about applying it to your situation, you can email me or simply grab a few minutes on my calendar

Make value vs. cost-based decisions

I’d like you to take out a piece of paper and pen and go through a quick exercise to estimate your time spent in mitigating issues. These are issues that you had to jump in and “fix” something because your team did not have the essential skills. It’s a quick formula, but it may make decision making easier based on value vs. simply cost: 

Value = # Hours / Month resolving issues X your $ Hourly compensation

For Example, if you spend 5 hours per month resolving an issue and your hourly rate is $75 per hour, the formula would look like this:

5 hours X 75 per hour = 4,500

Value  = $4,500

What if you invested that same amount of your value into developing your people. Sure, you still need to coach them, but you gain back the time you need to work on strategic work. Remember you are accountable for the strategic work and through your leadership and courage, you can leverage resources to round out the capability of your team. 

Now, let me be transparent with you. I WISH I had the external resources to have helped me to develop the essential skills of my team. It was a lot of work to coach the skills they needed for higher impact.  Because I did the hard work to see what was needed and I now have clarity and an offer to help build that capability for you. If you see the same gap on your team, I’d love to help you. 

Simply email me or connect with me for a quick chat. 

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Resources

Good Reads

“The Inside of my Eyeballs” by Deborah A. Coviello – a little bit of humor, but seriously, these past weeks I focused on sleep… a lot of sleep! While many take this time to rest and catch up on reading, I took the position to empty my brain and simply “being” vs. “doing”. By doing so, I was able to create my goals and strategy for 2022. Now that it’s running, I can make time to read again and share my best with you. 

Good Music

“Blizzard” by Thomas Bergersen – this week the temperatures are changing and winter is finally arriving where I live in Cincinnati Ohio. While people make preparations for “the worst” when a Blizzard comes through, I see it as an opportunity to hunker down and reflect on it’s beauty and powerful force. The beautiful snow represents new beginnings and a clean slate. The immense impact of nature can be yours as well. Is 2022 your year to make a major impact? 

Good Advice

“If you want to be unleashed and you want to be unstoppable, you need to clear out your subconscious mind with anything that’s holding you up.”

-Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco

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P.S. Do you have insights to share with CEOs? I’m currently accepting applications for my weekly live show on LinkedIn. You can apply here.

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My family and I were vacationing in Nice, France three years ago. I had the responsibility of checking us into the hotel because I spoke French. As I listened intently to the check in process, I was a bit nervous to ensure I understood them as well as formulating a response that would be understood. When I spoke to the receptionist, they responded with delight and asked if I was Canadian as my French was very good. I said I was American and they said they sincerely appreciated my effort. It was not typical for Americans to speak to them in French nor make the effort.  They suggested we switch to English for the remainder of the transaction and they were exceptionally helpful to settle us in.

Language is the vehicle to exchange information and achieve a result. Language is built on a foundation of history and culture unique to a group of people. When we seek to understand that foundation and leverage language to engage, we build trust and can move forward together.

Leadership has its own language based on the group we are meant to serve. The quicker we can learn that unique language, the faster we can make a lasting impact.

The Language of Simplicity: Keep it simple and people will thank you. 

A colleague and I had the honor and challenge of teaching an international group of professionals in Benicarlo Spain. We were teaching Six Sigma Methodology and I was given the task of explaining ANOVA (Analysis of Variation) and do it in a way that was concise and easy to understand. My colleague had other sections of equally challenging content to teach. When we broke for lunch and I sat down with the students, what transpired next is the key to connection through language. They said they liked my colleague very much, but when they spoke they used American English which was full of slang and they could not understand him. They said when I spoke, it was very simple and they could easily process the technical content and translate more easily with me. They thanked me for speaking proper English because I enabled them in the learning process. 

The important message is to understand your audience and speak in a language that enables them to process new information and gives them the power to engage in conversation. That is how we create connection and trust. When we speak at a level where they cannot process all the words or expressions, we break their confidence and fail to connect. As leaders, by keeping things simple we create better connections. 

The Language of the Locals – They’ll pick you up when you stumble and fall.

During a product transfer for a flavor company from Ireland to the Netherlands, I was interacting with many Dutch colleagues in the factory to enable that process. The Dutch speak exceptional English so it was easy to work with them. It was also important to me to try to learn words and expressions in Dutch so I could read their technical content and also listen to conversations in their native language. When I would respond with a few simple phrases, they were helpful to make corrections to enable me to continue to learn.

In business, we go into many situations where the technical language, the acronyms and words are foreign to us. When we speak in our own language, it takes longer to bring the conversations together and stalls the trust we need to build.  It is better to be vulnerable and start to use the other group’s language and make mistakes. When we ask simple questions to explain their unique language, the team is eager to help and in the process it builds trust. When we start using their language, we move the conversation along faster and together. 

The Language of the Body: Learn the culture for clues into human connection.

Singapore is a beautiful country and yet again I had the good fortune to teach an international group of colleagues. This time people came to us from Indonesia, India, Thailand, China and Japan who spoke various levels of English. This time, the challenge was not to speak in concise English, but to read what was said… and not said. Our students listened intently to every word we said and took copious notes. When we would take a pause in the training to ask if people had questions, there was silence in the room.

As an instructor, doubt ran through my head. Did we teach it so well, there were no questions? Did we teach it and no one understood what we said? It was very hard to read the situation, but we continued to move forward in hopes we were making an impact. 

During a team dinner, I was able to speak to one of the students to ask what they thought of the training. They said they were enjoying it very much and were eager to apply for the training when they returned to their country. This gave me permission to ask the next question about why the students were not asking questions. They responded that in their culture, they do not question the teacher. It is their responsibility to work harder to understand the material on their own. It would bring shame to them if they asked a question. 

Had I known that beforehand, we might have restructured the training. We could have provided some knowledge and then asked the students to work in small groups. Then I could listen to their knowledge level and provide additional clarification where I saw gaps in their comprehension. 

The lesson for leadership is to not assume comprehension amongst the team. We need to take the responsibility to ensure we read the body language and cultural norms to know if people will speak up when there is doubt. While difficult for some leaders, we need to slow down in order to speed up and bring others along with us. Language is meant to connect people. 

Every room you enter is an opportunity to learn a new language and build human connection.

Your willingness regardless of your performance level is what humanizes you to your team. Your team will help you in learning the new language and work with you to create a new language together. 

Starting today, think about what new project or team will you impact and ask yourself what language will you need to learn? 

If this makes sense, but you’d like to learn more about applying these principles to your situation, you can email medirect message me on linkedin or simply grab a few minutes on my calendar.  

I find through casual conversation leveraging The CEOs Compass often has all the answers for you to get back on track. 

The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track – If you’re that leader who feels in their gut something is off track, this could be the resource for you.

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Resources

Good Reads

LINGO: Discover Your Ideal Customer’s Secret Language and Make Your Business Irresistible – by Jeffrey Shaw   I’m a big fan of leveraging marketing and messaging to people I want to connect with. That is why I’ve leveraged an amazing marketing team that helps me to connect with you and my ideal client. When we learn the other person’s language we build human connection. This book by Jeffrey Shaw was very helpful as a business book, but it’s also important for the aspiring leader within an organization. Enjoy!

Good Music

Future World Music – Anthem of the World by Kai Hansen – it is only fitting I share a favorite song that is a celebration of cultures. I love this song because it is so simple and  uplifting. If we seek to understand individual cultures  and their language we can make beautiful music together. Enjoy!

Good Advice

This episode will be released on Friday 12/31/21 and I wanted to give you a glimpse into Earl Breon’s quote. It speaks to the reliance of a leader on their team to help them be successful. 

“You have to have a unique blend of believing that you can do whatever you need to do, but also know in the back of your mind that there’s a time when you will need to rely on the team.” 

–Earl Breon

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P.S. We will be out of the office 12/24/21-1/3/22. We wish  you a safe, happy & healthy Holiday.

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1970

Deb: Why is the Sky Blue? 

Adult: Why do you ask so many questions?

1982

Deb: How will I use the Pythagorean Theorem in everyday life?

Teacher: Can you see me after class, we have to get through this lesson!

2009

Deb: Shouldn’t this be our decision on who to hire for this position

Boss: You shouldn’t have asked that question!

2021

Deb: Before we get to the tactical details of running this meeting, shouldn’t we land on the outcome we want to achieve?

Colleague: Ahh, Ahh, you’re right, we should!

Asking so many questions has and always been my way of seeking to understand the world around me and navigating situations in front of me.

Why then does this superpower often collide with the world and people see it as an annoyance?  Challenging the status quo is not taught in our society as much as it should be and stifles creativity and higher levels of understanding. Compliance is mainstream because if you fall in line you won’t realize the backlash or conflict. Without this skill, people fall victim to the status quo and never learn how to ask better questions of themselves, others and society. 

I was recently at a networking event for which colleagues were sharing stories of not getting ahead due to lack of equal opportunity in the workplace. While I believe there are challenges in front of us, I was saddened to see the acceptance of the perceived obstacle. They were not asking deeper questions of why they thought the problem existed and even more upsetting was lacking the confidence to find ways out of the current situation.

When we allow ourselves and others around us to fall into acceptance, we stagnate our progress and our teams.  If you don’t, the people who look up to you will perpetuate the cycle of accepting the status quo and will also fall victim to narratives they believe. If you are an aspiring C-Suite leader, let me share with you my best tips to break out of the status quo and be the leader who asks better questions.

Have courage to ask questions that others won’t ask

If you don’t understand something, more than likely others will not understand as well. I recently asked the board of one of my professional societies a question. In the flurry of year end planning, people were deliberating details. I asked the question, “what do we want to be known for as a chapter?” to which people said I was right, we should answer that first. I said when we can define who we want to be as a chapter, we can make better decisions about the details. 

When you take the courageous position of asking “why”, you gain clarity and your silent colleagues will thank you as well. When you take a risk, others will be attracted to you and also learn important skills by modeling your behavior. I once had a personal trainer say something to me about risk-taking. He said, “what do you have to lose? You might actually be successful.”

With that suggestion, I err on the side of causing conflict because in the end I have engaged in conversation. Ultimately, we want people to interact in healthy dialog to achieve an outcome or decision. We want harmony and unified levels of performance in our workplace. When people don’t understand something or can’t relate it to their situation, over time compliance wanes or teams are misaligned. When we ask better questions and gain consensus or a unified outcome, team performance is higher. So what do you have to lose? Ask a better question, you gain clarity. Ask an even better question, you gain followers. 

Ask questions to get to the truth faster

Back in 2010 when I was getting impatient for a promotion I asked my boss to help me define my career path. They were honest with me that for my role, there was not a clear path to promotion. They offered me the advice that I was free to look elsewhere in the organization for opportunities. That truth short circuited a cycle of potential frustration; wondering if I would be recognized for my accomplishments and would be offered a promotion or new position. In that moment, I realized the truth and had information that enabled me to navigate to different roles. I saved months and possibly years of waiting and frustration. What I did was take control and have the courage to ask the question. A year later, I was working for a different company. 

The point I want to make here is so many aspiring C-suite leaders wait and hope. That simply doesn’t work and you’re losing the best years of your life. When you take the chance and ask a simple question, you gain back years of your life. If you’re nervous, the best advice I have is to write it down on a post it note or an index card (if they still use these!). 

Challenge the status quo to regain control

I’m often asked if I am a fractional CEO, COO or fractional (fill in the blanks) to which I say no; I’m the Drop In CEO. I catch people off guard, because they can’t put me in a box for which I fall in line with the sea of people doing the same thing. When we allow others to put us in a box, we are not seen, heard or respected.

When I respond that I’m the Drop In CEO, I become the leader that organization or team needs at that time and place in their journey. It challenges the status quo, but it makes me interested in which people want to learn more. It’s a lonely journey to position yourself differently, but over time, alternative thinking becomes interesting and in the long term, people will follow you to new lands vs. crowded spaces.

If having followers is not important to you, then the greater outcome of thinking differently is taking back the balance of power to control your situation. When people put you in a box, you have to fight to get out of it and prove your value. When you build the box and stand on it, people will come over and see how you constructed the box you’re standing on. You become interesting and you become the person people will ask more questions. As an aspiring C-Suite leader, challenging the status quo gives you the power you need to get ahead and stand out. 

Challenging the status quo is a lonely journey, but it’s liberating. Think about when you remained quiet and festered over a situation. You lost minutes, days or months of your precious life on earth. When you challenge the status quo and stand out as different, you speed up your ability to navigate your career. Ultimately you become the leader others will follow. You become the person you want to be and do the things you want to do with complete confidence. Does this sound better than falling in line? 

So what are you waiting for?  Five seconds have passed and you’ll never gain it back. What questions do you have that need to be asked? What ideas do you want to present that may change the course of your situation? Are you going to take control and change the balance of power in your favor? Let me know how it works out, I can’t wait to see where you take your career.

If this makes sense, but you’d like to learn more about applying these principles to your situation, you can email medirect message me on linkedin or simply grab a few minutes on my calendar.  

I find through casual conversation leveraging The CEOs Compass often has all the answers for you to get back on track. 

The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track – If you’re that leader who feels in their gut something is off track, this could be the resource for you.

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Resources

Good Reads

Stand out by Dorie Clark I’ve shared this resource before with you, but it’s in this season that you should think about who you are and who you are meant to be in the coming year. You are talented and courageous, but still unsure about the future. Take control and think about how will you stand out and be different than the pack. What questions will you ask that challenge the status quo. What stake in the ground will you make towards building your stand out statement in 2022. Be inspired and be great!

Good Music

When Leaves Dance by Shoshan Michel – this peace is calming as it sounds like the transition from fall to winter. It’s light and airy but also deep in emotion. As we reflect on 2021, I ask you to think about what went well and what will you bring forward into 2022. It’s a time of closure and new beginnings. Slow down and reflect as you listen to this song. Be inspired to be the leader you want to be for yourself, your team, your family and community. 

Good Advice

“It’s not about how many contacts you make anymore. It’s about how deep you go on each conversation.” – Ari Galper  

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When was the last time you contacted a colleague and let them know how well a connection they made for you went?

In a business environment so focused on the transactional aspect of networking, it’s easy to forget to nurture all of the relationships that produced the end result. If this sounds familiar, you have an opportunity to refocus your networking efforts on building these bridges to create a solid foundation for success. 

Gratitude networking is the art of paying it backwards to those who took the time to make introductions.

People who are gracious with their network do it because they truly care about you. When we come back to them and tell them the connection was valuable and how it was valuable, you solidify a trusting relationship for which they will remember you. When we forget these people in the process of gaining new business, we miss the opportunity for repeat referrals and burn bridges without realizing it.

I must admit, I did not realize how valuable networking was until the business development pipeline was drying up. What happened next as I navigated the labyrinth of networking organizations taught me a few lessons I want to share with you.

The lost art of the Thank You note

Remember to contact the person who referred you and share why the connection was (or was not) valuable. After I thanked a very gracious podcast host for their time to refer me to another host, the gift just kept giving. I must thank some of my best experts on The Drop In CEO podcast who have come from an abundance of referrals thereafter. Those guests soon became amazing referral partners and also reciprocated for an appearance on their podcast. Taking one minute of time to express gratitude has paid dividends in building brand equity and a trusting relationship. 

Write a review or recognize a colleague on social media

Content creators create for the love of creating. They don’t seek accolades, but when they receive them, it feeds their soul to continue the work. When we take the time to share with the world how they make you feel or consume their content, we serve humanity. Even more interesting is the side effect of recognizing our network is the impact on people that are watching you. You build trust with those you don’t even know yet because they see you expressing gratitude to your network. This increases the likelihood that they will engage with you in the future.

This week, I did a social media post recognizing someone’s book launch and podcast appearance on my show. That person’s network then generously downloaded my podcast and another reached out to me to be on the show. A five-minute social media post led to a bump in my network. 

Pick up the phone and tell someone how much you appreciate their support

As email and text convey information and emojis add an emotional dimension to communication, nothing replaces the joy of receiving a phone call and hearing the tone of your voice. Every time I have called someone and with my voice conveyed information, emotion and energy, I have 100% of the time received a response. This is especially important as it relates to completing a transaction. Every person that has been on my podcast has received a voice message or call from me expressing gratitude. Each and every time, they have come back with a thank you for my message. When we humanize our gratitude we leave a lasting impression. Just this month while vacationing in Florida, a past podcast guest referred me to a client to help solve a crisis. I later thanked the person who referred me and said I was always top of mind. 

As we move into the Thanksgiving Season where we express our gratitude for those in our immediate family and community, pause and reflect about who else you should reach out to. Don’t worry if too much time has passed. An expression of gratitude knows no boundaries. Make a list and when you return from your Thanksgiving holiday, remember to give thanks to those who want to see you succeed. 

If this makes sense, but you’d like to learn more about applying these principles to your situation, you can email medirect message me on linkedin or simply grab a few minutes on my calendar.  

I find through casual conversation leveraging The CEOs Compass often has all the answers for you to get back on track. 

The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track – If you’re that leader who feels in their gut something is off track, this could be the resource for you.

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Resources

Good Reads

The Game Changer’s Guide to Radical Success Paperback by Tevis Trower and an upcoming podcast guest on The Drop In CEO Podcast was an amazing resource for me.  Sometimes when we’re already successful, we can’t see what the next leap is for us. We stay in the present of what we’re good at, and with the insights from this book, you clear your mind to find what is your true calling and make a radical change towards success. 

Good Music

Loyalty Remains by Veigar Margeirsson As I finish my blog post while my copy editor patiently awaits to post this just before the thanksgiving holiday, I skurry to find an inspirational piece that conveys how I feel right now. While I’ve had some ups and downs this month emotionally, this piece renews hope that the work we’ve done together will come to fruition in 2022 and impact more people than I can imagine. Take a moment to listen and be emotionally uplifted by the end. 

Good Advice

My friend Clay Hicks podcast aired last week and as I think of our gratitude theme for this week, his quote was very appropriate. 

“We’re here to help each other right now. This is our moment. Let’s do that.”

–Clay Hicks

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“Deb, do you have a minute?”, my Manager of Food Safety asked.

I dropped my things on my desk after spending two hours that morning sorting email at home, only to find 20 new messages waiting for me.

I returned with my coffee, getting ready to call over my employee when the phone rings. It’s the VP of sales saying there’s an urgent issue with a customer and could I jump on a conference call in 30 minutes. Quickly, I rethink my morning and feel depleted because I was responding to urgent matters vs. what’s important.

This same “fire fighter” behavior is a common practice when handling business challenges and team relationships. We build relationships with our team in order to support them as they perform within the organization, but often push the maintenance of those relationships aside for more urgent matters.

We need to rethink our relationships and the time we allocate to each in order to get ahead in our work. Think about it, who should really be in an important relationship where we focus more of our time vs. those that we deal with on urgent matters. Wouldn’t a day be better spent with customers, working in partnership with sales or aligning with operations leaders to prepare our operations for regular customer or community visits? How many of you “wish” they could spend their day with these “Important” relationships vs. “Urgent” relationships?

Three important tips to change where you spend time in your relationships.

Identify “important” relationships

By identifying who you need to spend more time with and why the relationships are important, you have an outcome you are targeting. In The CEO’s Compass, I talk about Peace of Mind where if you spend more time with these important relationships, you will achieve the outcome you seek. For instance, spending more time with your customers because in the end being in partnership vs. reactive situations will ease the stress and you’ll realize a higher level of accomplishment.

Identify “urgent” relationships and how to remove yourself from them

Establish the framework and systems needed to triage urgent events and how they can be resolved without your involvement. Think about creating work standards where you give rules to your people to make decisions on their own and only the most important come to you.

Could these issues be grouped together for a weekly meeting and dealt with all at once vs. one by one? Have you delegated decision making to your team or given them additional responsibility to handle some of the urgent matters vs. the world being centered around yourself? Sometimes as companies grow in numbers, the leaders don’t know how to shed these urgent matters from their plate that can easily be managed by their people. The People, Process & Platform compass points in The CEO’s Compass give you the tools to elevate your people to handle “urgent” issues and giving you back the time to cultivate the “important” relationships.

Be a disciplined leader and spend 80% of your time on important relationships

‘You’ve got to be kidding’ you say to yourself when I espouse 80%. How is that possible? Well, it’s you that has to set the boundaries and block out your time to invest in the important relationships. It all starts with you. I discuss this in the first chapter of my book. The most important thing about making changes in your relationships is the one you make with yourself.

In full transparency, I struggled with this and it took time to move the needle from the urgent relationships filling my day to spending more time cultivating the important. During my last few years in corporate, I had the pleasure of spending more time visiting my customer locations as well as inviting them to our location for collaborative conversations.

Today, as The Drop in CEO, I invest in 80% of important relationships where I can now say I have Peace of Mind. The question to ask yourself is do you have the capability or capacity to find your way to the True North Compass point and feel the same way? If you need a guide, I can be that person for you… you don’t have to do this alone. Be the leader you need to be for yourself so that others can follow your lead and spend more time with Important vs. Urgent relationships. 

If this makes sense, but you’d like to learn more about applying these principles to your situation, you can email medirect message me on linkedin or simply grab a few minutes on my calendar.  

I find through casual conversation leveraging The CEOs Compass often has all the answers for you to get back on track. 

The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track – If you’re that leader who feels in their gut something is off track, this could be the resource for you.

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Resources

Good Reads

7 Keys to Navigating a Crisis by Dr. Elia Gourgouris PhD (Author), Konstantinos Apostolopoulos – I had the good fortune of interviewing Kon on The Drop in CEO Podcast and realized the book is about resiliency that transcends leadership through a crisis and also everyday life. An easy and impactful read. He has a Roadmap to Resilience 30 Day challenge beginning November 22nd that is an excellent accompaniment to this book. You can learn more about that here.

Good Music

Josh Kramer – Where the Light Goes This song is a little soulful and sad, but uplifting at the same time. Today, I’m a bit under the weather as I write this article and while I don’t feel optimal, I still find strength in this peace as empathetic to my condition. I wish you good health and keep positive energy to move you forward. 

Good Advice

 “If you’re not standing on firm ground for yourself, you cannot give what you

don’t have.”

–Konstantinos Apostolopoulos

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Picture a time when you relinquished control to your team and you had the freedom to simply be an observer. Can you see that image? If a situation doesn’t immediately come to mind, you’re likely wading through the details of your organization and missing out on the ability to lead with peace of mind. There’s a better way I’d like to share with you now.  

I’ll be completely transparent here, I periodically feel off track. As I continue to evolve and grow my business there are times I take back control of the details and then once stable I hand off to more capable people. I also realize that this business model is also not sustainable and we simply have to ask our team to take projects and trust the results.  It’s hard for a leader to do this; perhaps due to a deep rooted value of personal accountability.

High performers take ownership and initiate solutions. Organizations celebrate that personal accountability by giving you more responsibility. That’s likely how you landed in a leadership role in the first place.

However, with more responsibility comes the need to focus on big-vision goals and sustainability – that includes both organizationally and personally. You cannot sustain a leadership role without relinquishing the daily tasks and trusting your team to get things done. Recently, I relinquished a business process to a highly capable team and while I trust the outcome, it doesn’t remove the uneasiness we may have as leaders. 

As I pause and reflect on this challenge today, let me propose to you three compass points for you to consider so you can do the work you are meant to do:

Clearly articulate the Purpose of the work that needs to be done. 

The Northwest compass point is Purpose and if vivid enough for you to convey to others, they will carry on the work needed to achieve that Purpose. When leaders are clear on this and can articulate what that means to achieve Peace of Mind, people will follow and execute towards that Purpose.

Ask your people if they have everything then need to achieve maximum Performance.

The Northeast compass point is Performance and when we evaluate each person’s role and their capability to meet that Purpose, we may identify gaps to be closed. When a leader puts people in roles, but never asks “do you have everything you need to succeed?”, their performance will not be realized. As leaders, our roles are not to get results, but instead ensuring we remove every barrier from our people to succeed. 

Ensure the right Platforms are in place for your people to succeed.

This southern compass point is about the leader stepping away and giving them the tools they need to be self-sufficient and successful. Even when we have the courage to step back and allow your teams to perform against a well defined purpose, we need to provide them the Platforms needed to anchor their work. This may be an accountability system, decision criteria so they can be independent of you and frameworks for addressing issues or elevating them. When we give people the right tools to navigate complexity, they grow and learn from these experiences.

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While you contemplate these compass points for your situation, let me share with you the rest of the story and how I’m now realizing freedom and peace of mind. 

I relinquished control of my podcast management to a team of experts with the outcome that I use my time to focus on creating meaningful relationships with my podcast guests as well as all my business development efforts. They understood the outcome, they had all the skills and tools needed for success and after quick alignment, I now enjoy the freedom of enjoying my conversation with you.

I feel absolutely amazing and I want to continue to connect with more people like you. You are successful and should be proud. However, if you have come to a place where you don’t have the freedom you seek or peace of mind, I’d love to connect with you. 

If you’d like a bit more time to kick around your thoughts on this article, you can email medirect message me on linkedin or simply grab a few minutes on my calendar

The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track – If you’re that leader who feels in their gut something is off track, this could be the resource for you.

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Resources

Good Reads

Unlock the Sales Game by Ari Galper I know I’ve shared this one before, but now I’ve finished his interview and can’t wait for you to realize great value. When I stopped chasing people trying to close a deal, I focused on the person and asked them: “Where do you see this going from here?”. This has changed everything for me and takes the sales pressure out of the conversation. 

Good Music

Dragonfly Keeper by Phildel  This is a very light hearted song that stirs up creativity and hope in me. Today I was actually in a bad mood for unknown reasons. When this song played, it changed my mood. It also sounds a little like the theme music for the TV Sitcom, The Office. 

Good Advice

I love this quote my podcast production team pulled from my solo episode this week. While in flow and being grounded in my values and talking points, sometimes these thoughts come and I have the honor of sharing them with you. 

“When we focus on outcomes versus just the short term results, we bring people

to work for their minds and their creativity, and the possibilities are endless.”

–Deborah Coviello

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The internet landscape is flooded with content on leadership overwhelm and burnout. While we can blame the systems, a lack of skills or work/life balance to avoid burnout, we need to look deeper at the root causes where society has fallen very short.

Leaders think they are seeking results, when in reality they are in pursuit of Peace of Mind.

Peace of mind is that emotional feeling when the family is whole and safe. It’s the feeling when the community comes together and celebrates a High School football victory and its a leader looking on at their team seeing collaboration and great results without their intervention. That’s peace of mind.

When leaders focus their teams on pure results, that is all they will ever achieve. However, when a brave leader focuses their team on an outcome first, they bring together their team’s creativity and possibilities that align with the purpose. Ultimately they are the sustainable winners, rather than the typical results-oriented leaders. We do have to get results, but it’s a lagging indicator to the health and creativity of the workforce. 

When leaders focus on results and they miss the goal that month, they run their teams into the ground as firefighters with extra emails, meetings and long hours for the team. When the leader is in pursuit of Peace of Mind, they are far wiser than the previous leader to focus the team on a greater outcome and remove emphasis on month by month results. They give the team time and space to move forward on achieving the greater outcome.

For example, a leader says, “We want to be number one in market share.” The team will game the system to get that result at all costs. When they hit that goal, they high-five and celebrate. When they miss the goal, they beat their teams until they break.

Alternatively, a brave leader says, “We want to be the customer favorite.” They have the greater outcome in mind. People come to work energized to create an experience for the customer. Loyalty is created and they will be top of mind to partner with, even if there have been some mistakes along the way. When they become the customer favorite, the leader can step back and see the team perform at the highest level.

I’ve seen these leaders and when I interview them on The Drop in CEO podcast, they have truly achieved Peace of Mind. These are the companies I’ll follow. Will you?

So if this concept still intrigues you, seeking results vs. pursuit of Peace of Mind, let’s have a conversation on Linkedin or DM me. I’m your partner to help you move to Peace of Mind. 

If you’d like a bit more time to kick around your thoughts on this article, let’s book a call to discover your authentic leadership style. 

Resources

The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track – If you’re that leader who feels in their gut something is off track, this could be the resource for you.

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Good Reads

7 Keys to Navigating a Crisis: A Practical Guide to Emotionally Dealing with Pandemics & Other Disasters by Dr. Elia Gourgouris PhD and Konstantinos Apostolopoulos – I just interviewed one of the authors Kon Apostolopoulos and it was a book about leadership resiliency with concepts that had never been discussed before. Particularly about “Kindness” that too often leaders focus on the firefighting and miss respecting humanity. A great quick read! 

Good Music

“I believe” by Giuliano Poles – I was listening to this yesterday as I was driving to a keynote speech for The American Business Women’s Association; my first keynote and part of launching my speaking career. It was playing while driving through corn fields of Indiana and I had a wave of joy over me as I was racing to my dreams. I was so inspired because I believed in myself. 

Good Advice

I love this message from JD Gershbein because Linkedin has been my playground to grow my brand and build know like and trust with my audience. I wish more leaders realized the power of this platform.

“LinkedIn gives you an opportunity to really build out that personal information reservoir on yourself. It’s almost boundless in the way that you can market yourself.” – JD Gershbein

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I remember sitting in monthly leadership meetings feeling insecure because I didn’t fully understand the financial numbers. I had technical training as the head of quality, but lacked the financial education to be an active participant.

Knowing I had this knowledge gap, I proceeded to sign up for “Finance for the non-finance professional”, aka “Finance for Dummies”. I came away with a few tips to improve my understanding, but still lacked the financial savvy to ask good questions or highlight risks & opportunities.

I struggled for a few more years until I was approached by the head of operations to help quality leaders be able to be more influential by translating risk & opportunity into calls for action in the language of business.

While sitting over coffee with an experienced consultant we discussed this topic and how I still felt like a dummy. He then said everything boils down to “Top line growth”, “EBITA – or profitability”, and “Cash on Hand” and that was it! Those were the only three lines on the P&L I needed to know. If I could translate the work I did to direct impact on the business, then I have found the keys to financial acumen.

Check in with your employees to find the gaps and pair them with the resources they need. No one should have to feel like a dummy!

And if you want to know how I got through not only this challenge and hundreds of other challenges and transformed who I was, please connect with me at https://dropinceo.com/contact and lets continue the conversation or email me at deborah@coviellocm.com

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