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You’re not broken and all your gifts and unique qualities are just waiting to be shared with the world…don’t let time get away from you. Societal norms put you in a box, judge you on whether you conform or not and shun you for not falling in line. Forgive my bold opening to this week’s article, but I feel so strongly about anyone out there who is not leaning into your identity and leading with an “I am” vs. “I’m not” existence.

I’ll cut to the chase and share what you need to do as it transcends your personal, professional, family and community life and if not changed now will drain you of your purposeful existence.

  • Assess the source and determine if they are still relevant when they say you are “not” something.
  • If the source of saying you are “not” no longer exists, ask yourself why you still give it relevance. Let it go!
  • Question the standard by which you are judged. Did you agree to the standard or is it what you were programmed to believe. If you did not create the standard, it may not be relevant.
  • Ask yourself if you are happy with who you are? If yes, why do you let external factors define your happiness? Again, question everything and adopt an “I don’t care what they think” attitude.
  • Does the dog like you? Do your kids like you? Do your colleagues like you? If yes, who cares? It’s a nice to have, but at the end of the day, do you like yourself?

LinkedIn is a professional platform and we keep it very high level about Opportunities and Challenges. None of it matters unless we focus on our identity and arrive at a place where you believe “I am” and really like who you are. Nothing else matters.

I’m writing this from a place of having traveled for two weeks followed by being sick for anther two weeks that slowed me down to a crawl. During that time, I’ve had a lot of time to think about my identity and how I see myself. When I’m happy with my existence and at the pace I wish to move through it, nothing else matters. Only good things come from knowing “I am” and not adopting the narratives of others’ standards and judging myself against “I’m not”.

Just my 2 cents to hopefully inspire you to move through this day, this week, this month with your head high and know you are amazing!

Reach out to me on my website to learn more about my support and how to contact me.

-Deb

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Deb Coviello, The Drop In CEO

Known as The Drop In CEO™, Deb’s superpower is lowering the temperature and elevating conversations with empathy and patience. As a speaker, author, podcaster, and consultant, she teaches C-Suite leaders how to establish a “Lift, Light, Lead” environment and create calm amidst chaos or crisis. She is the author of “The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track,” and, “The NEW CEO Playbook: Stop Chasing Results and Start Pursuing Peace of Mind.” Her long-running podcast, The Drop-In CEO, is in the top 1.5% globally among Apple podcasts.

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One colleague is comfortable in a job; well maybe too comfortable and has been presented with multiple opportunities outside of their comfort zone. (What to do?)

One colleague is faced with multiple crisis; delays, financial, resources, yet continue to operate in the same way; is now a good time to consider a change? (What to do?)

Many colleagues I know have hung a shingle after leaving (or kicked out of) the nest and are doubting their ability to create sustainable value on their own. (What to do?)

These stories come across my doorstep all the time and I think I can impart a few thoughts to consider when faced with such opportunities or challenges.

Questions to Ask Yourself When You Can’t Make a Decision:

  • If my friend were in the same situation what would I advise them to do?
  • If there were no consequences to my decision, what would I change?
  • Do I have the ability to choose my own destiny?
  • What if money, resources or time were not a barrier, what decision would I make?
  • If my time was short on this earth, what would be the best decision to make?

For a moment, you might dream of possibilities only if you could release yourself from real or artificial barriers; but usually you don’t take action.

Could the reason for not being able to change your situation is you can’t separate yourself from the situation and your own mindset?

I know about this, I’m you going through these same changes as we speak.

However, I have a gift to be able to listen to you deeply. I am able to ask questions such as the ones above and qualify what is holding you back and what you might want to change.

You’re not broken, but you are human who is faced with sometimes difficult decisions.

Can you do it alone?

I sure hope you can by going through some of the questions above.

If you can’t move forward alone, let me move with you.

I have a few offers for leaders wherever they’re at in their journey and at the level of support needed.

I’m here for you.

Reach out to me on my website to learn more about my support and how to contact me.

Until then, I wish you a good decision making day and know you’ve got this!

-Deb

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Deb Coviello, The Drop In CEO

Known as The Drop In CEO™, Deb’s superpower is lowering the temperature and elevating conversations with empathy and patience. As a speaker, author, podcaster, and consultant, she teaches C-Suite leaders how to establish a “Lift, Light, Lead” environment and create calm amidst chaos or crisis. She is the author of “The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track,” and, “The NEW CEO Playbook: Stop Chasing Results and Start Pursuing Peace of Mind.” Her long-running podcast, The Drop-In CEO, is in the top 1.5% globally among Apple podcasts.

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It’s obvious isn’t it? Donuts look amazing with their glazes, sprinkles and cream fillings! The donut hole is the leftovers from the donut with just enough glaze or coating to make you feel amazing, but not too much that you feel guilty. Yet, both are effective at lifting your spirits up and gets the job done. So how does this relate to leadership?

Leadership can look glorious on the outside with all the perks and responsibility; aka the donut. There are also leaders that are not as polished, but equally effective in their outcomes; aka the donut hole. But at the end of the day, you need both leaders.

I’m experiencing this with a client that have leaders that are stand out and command the room. There are quiet leaders who get @#$@#$# done, but are not flashy. Which is better? I have come to realize in organizations you need both donuts and donut holes because both are critical to leading the organization. Never compare the two, but both compliment each other. Donuts can co-exist with donut holes and achieve amazing results.

So next time you’re building an organization; make sure you select both donuts and donut holes! Your team will thank you!

This article is brought to you buy a slightly hungry Saturday morning Drop In CEO 🍩☺️

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Deb Coviello, The Drop In CEO

Known as The Drop In CEO™, Deb’s superpower is lowering the temperature and elevating conversations with empathy and patience. As a speaker, author, podcaster, and consultant, she teaches C-Suite leaders how to establish a “Lift, Light, Lead” environment and create calm amidst chaos or crisis. She is the author of “The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track,” and, “The NEW CEO Playbook: Stop Chasing Results and Start Pursuing Peace of Mind.” Her long-running podcast, The Drop-In CEO, is in the top 1.5% globally among Apple podcasts.

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Guest Writer: JL Heather

Media3L is the media arm of The Drop In CEO Brand which stands for Lift, Light and Lead. I like to shine a “Light” on valued partners in my network for which I have the pleasure of knowing JL Heather, Managing Partner and Principle Executive Coach at Centered. Enjoy his through leadership on Innovation and I encourage you to reach out to him and add him as a valuable resource to your network!

Innovation is the lifeblood of long-term success. Yet for many organizations, it remains elusive—a buzzword that sounds great in strategy meetings but struggles to deliver tangible results. Why? Because innovation isn’t a single initiative or a job title. It’s a system—a series of deliberate, interconnected actions that foster creativity, collaboration, and execution.

As a CEO, your role is to ensure that system works. It’s not about micromanaging ideas or dictating solutions; it’s about creating the conditions for innovation to thrive. Based on what we’ve seen at Centered, here are three key strategies to drive real impact from your innovation programs.

1. Understand Your Organization’s Innovation Readiness

Before you can foster innovation, you need to know where your organization stands. Are your teams aligned around shared goals? Do they have the resources, autonomy, and psychological safety to explore new ideas? Understanding these dynamics is critical, yet many leaders skip this step and dive straight into initiatives without assessing their starting point.

Take the time to evaluate your organization’s innovation readiness. Look at the alignment of your culture, processes, and leadership behaviors. Ask tough questions: Are teams encouraged to experiment, or is failure quietly punished? Do your systems and structures make collaboration seamless or stifle it? Knowing these answers helps you identify where to focus and how to unlock your teams’ potential.

2. Embrace Agile Problem-Solving Frameworks

Innovation isn’t a linear process. It’s iterative, messy, and often requires rapid adaptation. To move fast without breaking the wrong things, CEOs should champion frameworks that encourage structured experimentation, such as design thinking or agile methodologies.

These approaches allow teams to prototype, test, and refine ideas quickly, reducing the risk of overinvesting in solutions that don’t work. By embedding agile problem-solving into your organization, you create a culture of progress over perfection—a mindset that helps teams focus on outcomes rather than bureaucracy. Encourage experimentation, celebrate learning from failure, and model the value of adaptability.

A great way to dive in is with a Design Sprint!

3. Build a Leadership Culture That Enables Innovation

Innovation thrives when leadership inspires it. As a CEO, your behavior sets the tone for how teams approach risk, collaboration, and creativity. Are you creating space for exploration, or are your priorities sending a message that execution always outweighs experimentation?

Focus on building a leadership culture that balances vision and trust. Ensure your leaders know how to foster collaboration across silos, encourage open dialogue, and provide psychological safety for teams to take smart risks. Invest in developing leaders who can empower their teams and remove barriers, rather than micromanaging outcomes.

Your Role as the Innovation Enabler

As a CEO, you don’t have to be the source of the best ideas—but you do need to create the conditions for those ideas to emerge. This means understanding where your organization is today, equipping teams with the right frameworks to move forward, and setting a leadership example that prioritizes growth, experimentation, and adaptability.

Innovation isn’t just about big, flashy ideas; it’s about building the systems and practices that make creativity a repeatable, scalable process.  By focusing on readiness, agility, and leadership, you can build a system that delivers innovation not as a one-time win but as a repeatable, scalable process.

The question isn’t whether your organization can innovate—it’s whether you’re building the system to make it inevitable.

About Centered

At Centered, we empower your organization to innovate boldly.

By fostering a culture of experimentation, inspiring leadership, and building high-performing teams, we ensure your business continually adapts and thrives in a changing world.

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When my husband announced we would have new hardwood floors & carpeting on the 2nd floor in our home, I was elated with the change. When my entire world was disrupted that Monday and had to re-arrange all my plans, I did not respond well. What happened? My husband communicated the change. He gave me the details of what to expect. He was frustrated we did not appreciate the process for which I felt really bad. The breakdown came because communication fails when we don’t have two-way understanding of the impact. Let me share more so you don’t make the same mistake in business.

Leaders cascade initiatives and deploy change agents so communications happen throughout the organization. The presentation is polished, videos are recorded and townhalls arranged in hopes that the organization understands the impact. The key word is “Hope”. Where leaders fall short is they invest the communication and not on the outcome of understanding.

A few ideas that can help a leader though this issue to avoid conflict, irritation and dissention among the rank and file.

Invest in Understanding as the outcome of what you’re trying to achieve. The communication is simply the vehicle towards understanding.

  • Ensure you cascade in detail the change and the expected impact
  • Ask people if they can articulate the impact to their work; confirming understanding.
  • Ask people to raise issues associated with the event that were not considered and with open discussion, you can ease the tension.

It’s not rocket science, but when we ask people to think in terms of outcomes and impacts from the end user perspective, we realize we have a lot to learn about communication. Remember the telephone game where what starts out as one message is degraded by the time it gets to the last person.

As leaders we have a responsibility to assure that what we communicate is understood; else we fail to be leaders.

Getting back to my situation; I was banned from my office for two days and could not function in a noisy home that transcended all three floors. There was no escape, so I needed to adapt. I found work arounds, including my basement for which I was able to continue doing business. I later recorded a video thinking I had a virtual background that later failed and I was recording my basement background! How embarrassing, but it added to the humor of the situation and I might say a fun recording!

The next time you have to communicate, change your mindset that you’re in the business of effecting understanding for a better outcome!

If you’d like to discuss how we can build this competency into your team, let’s talk!

Until then, wishing you better Two-Way Understanding!

-Deb

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I was a bit upset when I facilitated an introduction that would be beneficial to both parties and one person did not respond. I gently reached out to them wishing them well and asked if they had received the introduction. They responded quickly saying it must have gone to their spam folder for which they quickly retrieved and did the follow up. I’m grateful my intervention may help in the conversation, but how often is this the ‘excuse’ that we give to others?

While SPAM folders provide a purpose to protect us from unwanted messages; given we know there are things in there that may not belong, why do we not manage that? In the end, when we don’t mitigate the risk of potentially missing a communication and blame it on the SPAM folder, what does that do to the relationships we do want to nurture? Quite frankly, it sends a bad signal when we give that as an excuse.

As leaders, we need to put in place systems that assure us that we reduce risks in missing transactions or communications. Customers don’t accept communications going to SPAM. Then why do we think it’s acceptable to use this as an excuse for our other interactions? I simply want you to think about your lack of managing your systems reflects poorly to those who are impacted by them.

Instead, I recommend the following:

  • You or designee review the SPAM folder daily and any missed communications, send your apologies for the delay and take ownership of it.
  • Create additional rules in your mail system that “if” and “from” important people or entities, to send them to another folder or mark them for follow up.
  • Unsubscribe from all mailing lists that you don’t want so your name / email is not shared with other mailing lists; causing more SPAM to go to that folder and possibly missing something important.

While technology has become a life savor for us from an efficiency perspective, over utilization and dependency can be our demise and ruin relationships.

So, the next time you find an important communication in your SPAM folder, what will you do? Blame the system or will YOU take accountability for the relationship?

For more opinions from The Drop In CEO, consider reaching out to me for a conversation and maybe I can provide content value for you and your platform or organization!

I offer panel discussion, speaking, content writing and internal podcasting for your organization. Let’s talk about the offers that provide you or your organization value!

-Deb Coviello, The Drop In CEO

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When a CEO calls me to discuss a potential challenge, I run towards that opportunity with all the energy I can. You see, I can see that CEO in ways they cannot imagine. All I want to do is rush into the chaos to gain the clarity they are seeking to avoid the crisis that is looming.

In full transparency, let me share with you how I operate and if you’re my CEO who is in the same place, read on to see if you want to work with me!

Step 1: Listen to the CEO, but dig deeper

The CEO provides much insight into their world and often advices where they think the problem is. This is very helpful, but please know you commission me to see what you cannot see. I’ll validate your concerns, but I’m going to give you the systemic conditions that need to be addressed as well.

Step 2: Give you more than what you asked for

You see, I believe in providing tremendous value and see the world from the CEO perspective. Yes, we will “whack-a-mole” in what is obvious. I will also look at your landscape with lenses in Quality, Operational Efficiency & Waste, Environmental Health & Safety, Food Safety and Leadership. Be ready for a systemic implementation approach whether you hire me or not

Step 3: Distill the information into consumable and actionable chunks.

Life is complex, but feedback should not be. I will give it to you straight leveraging the SWOT approach and reveal or confirm what are your organizational Strengths and Opportunities. You can accomplish so much more by leveraging these insights than the Weaknesses and Threats. When it comes to the bad stuff (sad face), I position it so it focuses on Conditions & Management Practices. Fix those deeper issues and you fix it through-out the organization. You may not like what I say or become defensive, but you, the CEO hired me to show you the way, not what you want to hear

Step 4: Deliver with Gratitude

Maybe this should have been Step 2 or 3, but just know throughout the process, I am in deep gratitude to you for giving me the opportunity to see your world and help you navigate the challenges. I will use my 35 years experience to provide my best insights, but I will never give you my 5 step approach because it simply will not work. You and your organization are unique and like a surgeon, will apply the specific cure for your situation.

Step5: It’s a partnership

I care about you as a person and your organization that you take so much pride in. We collaborate on the insights and prioritize together; walking arm in arm. I’m in it for the long game as are you and I simply want to see you succeed.

So, this piece today was inspired by an amazing conversation I had with a CEO and VP yesterday and validate to me the work I’m best suited to do as The Drop In CEO.

If you are having a feeling in your gut that the near term chaos may manifest into a crisis without your leadership, act now and trust yourself. A partner such as The Drop In CEO may be who and what you need to elevate your leadership, shine a light on the people in your organization and solidify your Legacy.

Let’s talk!

-Deb

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I wrote “The CEO’s Compass: Your Guide to Get Back on Track” to lift up CEO’s by exploring their Hero’s Journey through the unknown, guiding them to their own Peace of Mind in 2021.

I was so grateful when it came out to share autographed copies and seeing the book sales in Amazon and other outlets. I thought I had hit the big times and then someone said to me, ‘is it available on audio?’ and then I realized I fell short of meeting my audiences needs.

The same thing goes for business; when leaders think the presentation or the email is enough to cascade a proclamation; I would say they miss the mark in communication and truly influencing an outcome. When a leader shows up with their voice and intonation, we connect with humanity on a different level. Know your market and communicate accordingly!

That is why I’m announcing that starting tomorrow, I am recording the audiobook for The CEO’s Compass and can’t wait to get it to my audience who prefers my voice. Yes, Deb’s voice will read the book in a way that I hope connects with you intellectually and emotionally; ultimately leading to Peace of Mind.

I’m excited to partner with David Wolf and his team at Audivita Studios | Audiobooks | Podcasts for this new media offer.

Anyone wishing to advocate for this offer, please DM me and I’ll share with you the marketing details.

Many thanks for everyone who has supported me along the way and for those who come knocking on my door in the future, I thank you in advance as well.

-Deb

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I am pleased to share my platform with Erin McCullough as this week’s Guest Writer

Erin McCullough, Executive Coach and Drop In CEO Guest Writer

Erin Mac is an Executive coach that specializes in helping entrepreneurs and leaders in discovering the unique impact that they want to make and bringing that gift to the world.  She has been an entrepreneur for 24 years, a business consultant for 16 years and a coach for 6 years.


This week with my 4th graders (if you’re new to this blog I work with kiddos to teach them strategies for stress and anxiety) we talked about this amazing workbook, that I highly recommend, “My Happiness Journal.” While this is geared for kiddos, and I highly recommend it for them, I also love this for “adults”. I put adults in quotes because I believe deep inside there is still a child who has great imagination, wonder, curiosity and FUN! And, I am still riding off the high of all the fun making we have been discussing over the past month, and my encouragement to get out there and have a lot of it! Well, this is no different. This journal makes me smile just looking at it, and it couldn’t be any more appropriate than to channel that inner child and all of their creativity for us adults!

Why I think this journal is a must have is that it asks the all important questions of: “My Birthday was great this year because”, and “This dessert is happiness” (and it asks you to draw the dessert!) I kid, these things are fun, but some of the other things it asks are: “What are the 5 things I couldn’t do without in my happiness bag?”, “Five things to do if I’m having a bad day” (with 5 suggestions: read a book, text a friend, take a walk, draw, play a game and 5 blanks to fill in), and “Happy to Help Coupons” (fill in the blank on how you are willing to help others).

Now, you know this is right up my alley in terms of positivity and present moment awareness, but what really struck me were my daughter’s and the 4th graders answers to these questions. It wasn’t what they said, or talked about, it was the simplicity in it all. There weren’t a lot of fluff in the answers or justification as to why they felt this way or that. In fact, most everything they answered from the book was one or two word answers. Most of these kids know exactly what makes them feel good, no hesitation. Can you say the same? Could you rattle off the 5 things in your happiness bag (no fair just rattling off the people you love, dig deeper) and 5 strategies to turning your day around?

I know prior to beginning my personal journey to understanding why I was so unhappy and unfulfilled I would not only be hard pressed to come up with 5 things in my happiness bag that had meaning, I definitely did not have 5 strategies for coping with stress, anxiety and overwhelm, that weren’t some form of distraction or numbing (think alcohol, TV/movies, social media, food, etc.). And, these three emotions, at that time, were my primary emotions. Nor did I know that it was possible to overcome these emotions and heal from them so I didn’t have to keep experiencing them on repeat. See, I didn’t realize that I did not have to have the life experience that we are here to be challenged and our job is to seek solutions to these challenges. That is what I thought life was, a “challenge-solution” game. I thought is was my job to avoid pain (challenge) by finding solutions. I thought that I would find enough solutions one day that all the challenges would go away. Well, by definition that is not possible because I was playing the game of “challenge-solution”, thus challenge was part of the deal.

I don’t know about you, but I got really good at coming up with solutions to all the challenges in my life, personally and professionally. I would pride myself on coming up with creative solutions, and quick. But, if life is a “challenge-solutions” game and I was coming up with good solutions, quickly, how come I wasn’t satisfied? How come if life was supposed to be a “challenge-solution” game there was only short-lived satisfaction and a lot of stress and overwhelm? The reason is that you can’t win that game because not every situation is going to be exactly the same, so the solutions will need to be varied and nuanced and likely not usable for the next challenge. Also, the people involved in each situation are complex. And lastly, you have set up a hamster wheel or treadmill scenario in which there must be a challenge in order to find a solution for the game of life to continue.

So, what to do? If life is not “challenge-solution” then what is it? It just is. Life itself is neutral. All the scenarios that we are in reaction to are neutral. We are the ones that bring the challenge, the bad feelings, and the stories to every scenario. We are the ones that create the drama, the stress, the expectations and the bad feelings. Life is actually simply a “cause-effect” game. And, if we played it as such there would be not only less feeling bad, we would be able to course correct quicker and continue moving forward. This is my work, helping people to identify what is tripping them up from enjoying this life right now. Helping them get out of the “challenge-solution” game and into the “cause and effect” game so that they can find purpose and meaning and be present and participating in their lives right now! It is possible, and I believe our birthright, to feel good almost exclusively and I want to help you get there. If you can relate let’s schedule a time to chat.

Peace,

Erin “off the wheel” Mac

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You might actually wear the bruise with honor! So often we wait for recognition or feedback to know how we are doing in our career or personal pursuits. The key word is “wait” as if you’ll be struck by lightening and have clarity in your direction going forward. Those who wait for external validation are destined to be disappointed. For those that get kicked in the A@$, you have received a blessing and are better for it.

How many of you (show of hands) have had this happen to you; either kicked out of the nest or had your head handed to you and were blindsided? If you’re not raising your hand, you’re in a very small club of people who are missing out on the best thing that could have happened to you. Let me get to the point as I know you are very busy…

  • Enjoy your pity party because we have to grieve when we have lost something or we feel regret. Honor the feeling so it does not linger -Grieve It
  • Ask yourself why you were not prepared for what just happened and what could you have done differently-Reflect On It
  • If you did see it coming, why did you not act before becoming a casualty – Own It
  • If you felt it was out of your control, what now is in your control, you decide-Decide it
  • And once you Decide what you will own and take action on, how will you prevent yourself from falling into old patterns that lead you back to where you came from. Create the future you want-Create IT

So enough of the pep talk. This is not an easy process. Following the steps of Grief, Reflection, Owning, Deciding and Creating a new path forward is not just a political slogan, but an intentional choice in how you lead your life whether in your career or your external pursuits.

Getting your A@$ kicked is something that only once happens to CEO’s and C-Suite leaders because they learn from these opportunities. They seek support, new ways of thinking and are intentional about self management. Is this you? I may have the solution you need to manage through or preventing your next A@$ kicking!

Until then, be well-Deb

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